Our Story

Welcome to my safe haven! If you found your way here from YouTube or Instagram — you are in the right place.

I'm Becky, living solo at 60+, converting a small cabin shell into my cozy aging-in-place sanctuary ~ a place to call home. Love solo road tripping with my dog Lilly in my trusty 2013 Chevy 4x4 Tahoe while learning photography and writing my heart out. This website is where my lifestyle blog lives, and it's the exclusive home of my monthly snail mail subscription Blynn & Blossom.

Blynn & Blossom was created the moment I realized I had a lot more living to do, even alone, I didn't want to miss a thing. Blynn & Blossom is something I wished existed during my hardest days — a sense of connection, support, love, understanding, and most importantly, learning to love myself unconditionally. With Blynn & Blossom arriving in your physical mailbox monthly, I hope it starts filling the heart and soul while creating a sense of friendship and belonging, something we all so badly need.

In life we must learn to pivot and make changes when necessary. If not, then we stay in a negative, bitter, angry toxic place. Deaths, divorce, single by choice or not by choice, and all the other reasons can knock us off course and change our lives forever. Always know that many roads lead home ~ just need to keep searching until we find the right one. Detours in life are nothing more than part of the journey, like pit stops along a road trip, eventually we reach the destination.

I believe in positive forward motion, transformation, growth, and true happiness. I'm here to walk side-by-side with others. We're all at different stages on this journey called life. Let's help one another in positive ways by guiding and lending support to one another. 

Every month I share a little piece of my world with you — a copy of a personal letter, a postcard featuring a photo I've taken, a beautiful bookmark, a recipe from my kitchen, an affirmation card. Every item is to serve a purpose, a reminder that you matter, you are worth it. As long as you're breathing, it's never too late to begin again. Grab yourself a fresh cup of coffee or tea, find a cozy place to snuggle up with a fur baby and open the letter, it's time to start building the life you deserve.

Move forward, no looking back — staying focused on body, mind, and spirit has become my motto. Change is scary, not always easy, but can be so very exciting!

Now choose you💛 ~Becky